Youth building identity and early career confidence
More than a decade ago, I arrived in the United States as an international student. I was learning how to navigate a new country, a different culture, and adulthood—all at the same time. I did not have the guidance or support I now realize I needed. Like many people beginning a new chapter, I often had to figure things out on my own.
Over the years, I began noticing the same struggle in others: immigrants trying to build lives far from home, high school students approaching graduation without a clear sense of direction, college students uncertain about what comes next, and veterans adjusting to civilian life. Each person was already carrying life’s everyday pressures while trying to navigate an unfamiliar transition.
Some of the strongest and most enduring relationships in my life have been with older adults; the youngest person in that circle is 45. Those relationships have taught me the value of patience, trust, and staying connected across different stages of life.
Because I am often the tech-savvy person in the group, I am usually the one people turn to when they need help learning a new technology, creating a résumé, conducting online research, or navigating an unfamiliar online process. I do not simply give them an answer; I walk with them through each step until they feel comfortable doing it for themselves. These everyday moments have shown me how practical guidance can restore confidence and help people move forward.
I have also crossed paths with veterans at different points in my life who needed support before and during reintegration—not only into society or the workforce, but also into family life, community, daily routines, and a renewed sense of belonging. Their experiences have deepened my understanding that transition is rarely one-dimensional. People often need someone who can see the whole person, not just the immediate problem.